I can say that we don't know about the fried cakes in our place but we heard that in Kano there was a big party for the people, many went to the wedding; in Sokoto.

So the bride was brought there and they stayed for four days and a week and they said they would do it, but they arrived in Abuja in four days and already her part was decorated so the decorators took it and they decorated it wherever they were in the house.

I was sitting with the children on vacation because I did my homework the day they came in since Monday I started working night duty at night.

While we were sitting, the children complained to me about their daddy or his phone not ringing the bells, did they have any complaints about her or my aunt, but she sat quietly or the food was so good that she ate it right away that's what I ran away with and the news the children made about it.

Hindatu came into my room and said to me, “Hussunah, she is beautiful to me, by God, so she calls you and says come and look at her for me.”

 I smiled and grabbed the girl's hand and said, "Is it daddy or hussuna?" I showed her Anty who was sitting there, she was kind of sad on the chair.

Hindatun told me that I didn't know what they were doing, I just assumed that was why she was in pain and she said it was good, so I told her to finish where Anty was sitting and she said girl, your father got married, I'm sorry.

From where I was sitting, I said that he was even more upset since he had hit himself with a ssbon attention again.

Because she also has her own color of complaint, she will come in just like we are here, everyone has their own life situation, so she will come in and stop where he stood.

Like a donkey's head, Zulfa came in, hugging her daughter behind her and said to Hindatu, are you here? Hindatun said, I brought this, she showed her daughter and said that I thought she was not well, she said that she was missing her father, that's how you saw them there, she showed where Anty was sitting.

 She laughed and said, "Yes, you are angry, aren't you the only one with her father? You are all hairy or always in the mood to see him, don't you worry, we don't know since he will stop you from relaxing." 

She licked the girl's nose and said, "Yes, you should do it since dad left you here and he was there taking out his frustration on his daughter-in-law, the girl." 

I smiled and straightened up a little, holding daddy who came and hit me, then Hindatu said, "Why don't you know what to say to a man? Sometimes he brings this up and now to a girl too, right?" 

Oh, he's not in front of you, for God's sake, this behavior should have stopped in this house by now, if not, then the one who comes in will also come in and we have contempt for us. 

It shouldn't be that every woman comes in and always finds this kind of disrespect between us, so contempt quickly creeps in between her and him. 

 But if she comes in and finds herself having sex with children, then you will see that she has lost her place in the house of another woman. If she is a smart woman, she must follow her own path to live peacefully.

And if the woman who is a dancer says that she will establish her own rules, she must abide by them, but if she does not have a foothold in her, she will get into her head.

If this woman also comes in and finds us in this jealous attitude towards each other, by God, she will despise us, she will never take us seriously because she will also say that she will try her own way, and that for us and the husband, and you will see that she will come and own the house in a short time.

Many women experience these problems in their homes, and you will see that the wife does not come and wants to despise the mind of the woman she finds in the house.

To achieve this, there is no cooperation or rivalry with the husband, there is no mutual understanding between them, and she will even have the opportunity to try to establish her own government in the house.

 So what if a little girl comes into our lives and makes us like this, like each of us waits for our brother and we often try to harm our children without any cooperation between us, do you think it will happen?

Please God, please stop this behavior of teasing each other and saying things that will hurt each other's feelings.

We have seen that a husband is not the husband of one wife, two or three, he is the husband of four wives. God has united us with him, if we live together peacefully, then things will be good between us.

We used to stand and eat each other's food, but daddy has nothing to do with it, we all know here that everyone has their own wives in this house and that's how he lives happily and gives us all our rights that God has placed on him.

We still can't sit down and understand each other, when one of us moves, we start to gossip among ourselves.